Long Time No See
What do Thai people do when they meet someone they haven’t seen for a long time? This lesson explores Thai customs for reunions with old school friends, relatives, teachers and former colleagues.
You’ll find out when to ask สบายดีไหม (sà-baai dii mái) – “Are you well?” and when เป็นยังไงบ้าง (bpen yang-ngai bâang) – “How are things?” is the better choice. You’ll also learn why many Thai people feel uncomfortable being hugged by someone they aren’t very close to, and how กราบ (gràap) – bowing to touch the head to someone’s feet – is used to show the highest respect.
Instead of hugging, Thai people show they care by bringing ของฝาก (khǎawng fàak) – gifts such as fruit or local products from their home province. Discover why hosts often send their guests home with a gift in return, and why turning up empty-handed can even lead to an apology!